very vexing. I can only tell you that we have a diesel Mercedes Sprinter. Same story. Loosing coolant, verified multiple times. No obvious leaks. Dealer did coolant pressure test...held pressure. Could drive from Fla to Texas and not use coolant. A month of stop/go daily driving in Texas...had to add coolant several times. Seemed to be related to the number of cool/heat cycles. I finally added radiator stop leak...been 7 months now, no need to add more coolant.
Vexing...no real answer, dunno how long the stop leak will work...however, I have had good luck on a couple of other occasions with it, so am hopeful.