Got the plow all dialed in now. The problem I was having was the speed of the hydraulics. Since the 3rd function is an open or closed valve with full tractor hydraulic flow with no "feathering" of the flow and since the plow was taking all of this flow into the small cylinders, the plow was angling at lightning speed.
Solution: Flow Restrictors! I bought a couple sets just incase since they were so cheap, $3.12 each. I bought 3/8" restrictors and added them at the couplings on the plow side where they connect to the tractor. They all come with a tiny hole in them which when I tried first and found they were too restrictive, the plow moved very slow. I took the second set and drilled out the hole to 5/32" (the smallest drill bit I had handy) and swapped them in. They worked well but was still a bit fast. Took the original set and drilled them out to 3/32" and nearly perfect results. I probably could have just gone to 1/16" but it's not worth the time now to go for a 3rd try. Though you only technically need one restrictor I installed two because I wasn't sure how the high flow to one side would make the crossover relief valve behave and at $3.12 for the 2nd one it really wasnt worth the hassle to find out.