Thanks guy's for the encouragement and ideas.
Don I will order that book. The biggest factor for her we think is stress, Doctor thought so too. She has been raising my nieces (3) even through the death of my step-dad, active in the church woman's deal and always helping people, on top of that she is a hospice nurse:confused3:. We have been telling her to "stop and smell the roses" for several years now, she has done her share
A week ago My brother and I took the two youngest girls, because mom finally reached out and knew something was wrong. She is one of the most independent woman I have ever known, so admitting something like this doesn't come easy. We thought she was "too" active, meaning outside of her own care. Both of her parents died in her home under hospice care.
As far as diet, she has that part down pretty good, being vegan based on her religious beliefs. Cardiologist said she has an amazingly good diet (better than his LOL) He feels the biggest threat for her now is stress and her trip would do her good.
My brother and I hadn't planned on "adopting":laughing: but I guess you have to stand up and do you're part when the need arises, at least I got the 17 year old

Unfortunately for the 1st time, I have gotten cross with my sister, since her life choice have trumped the care of her kids. Being "temperamental", I have done my best to stay out of the "family politics", but after sitting there alone yesterday waiting 5 hrs to talk to the surgeon, I ended up a bit perturbed.
Sorry for the long "soap box" reply, besides two ex- LEO friends, you guys are the "onliest" friends I have:laughing::thumbsup: