Tractor Supply doesn't make the q.d.'s, they just distribute them. I don't know if this is the case or not, but sometimes a manufacturer gets beat up so badly on price, that they make an inferior product to meet the buyers price demand.
How long have they been on the machine? Sounds like you may also have dirt in the seats that did some damage. Do you have the little condoms for when disconnected? OOps, I just read, you do have the condoms.
This is why I preach to buy locally from a hydraulic shop. If a local guy bought these from me, then I could examine them and tell him if he had a defective product, if he was using the improper q.d. for his application, or if he was abusing them. Intentionally or not. I know that you guys get ripped off a lot from the local guys, but I find it hard to believe that there is never anyone around with a reasonable price. You may pay more locally than on the internet or at a discount house, but when you have a problem you could go there and ask rather than trying to get an answer a thousand miles away on the internet.
The ISO 16028 (flush face Parker FF or FE series) q.d.'s are rated for higher pressure and flow. A much higher quality piece. 5,000 p.s.i. for all sizes. The Ag style and the other similar types drop in pressure rating as the size increases. If you want an even better q.d. for the about the same price or less than the normal flush face you buy, go with the series 71 q.d., rated for double the pressure and more flow.
Remember, these old style q.d.'s were developed when working pressures were way lower. If you are using any other than flush face in a modern piece of equipment, they will not last as long as they should. Just remember, the cheap end up paying twice.