Just to close the loop on this thread somewhat, I went with 20 tons of #1 stone. This is 1/2" minus with no additional fines added, but not washed. The stone chips are not round and do lock together and pack down into my clay/mud soil. The prior owner had almost a pea gravel down in this area. This stuff was about $550/20 ton including delivery.
The stone is keeping cars, people and dogs out of the mud/clay and now my dogs can get out without needing everything wiped off after each trip outside. This is a parking area so people aren't moving fast and blasting the gravel all over and is similar to what was there originally. Put it down with the loader to spread it out and touched it up with the landscape rake and gauge wheels to smooth it out. I went over the entire thing with my roller just to pack some of it down into the base.
Now for the driveway, I think I am going to give crushed concrete (3/4 minus) a try simply due to price (350/20ton vs. 550/20ton) and just try to get a nice thin layer across the 1/2 mile drive. Some sections need more than others. I checked out a local spot that used it and it looked pretty nice.