I saw a kid on the evening news last night that said, "if you go a party you can't say no to it", in referring to vaping. I grew up in the drug and pot smoking era of the 70's. I made demo tapes for music groups when I was young where pot flowed like clouds. I always said no and people and my friends were fine with that. I can't figure out the, "I can't say no", people.
Off topic: Personally I've never smoked anything. My late Father smoked from age 12 to about 68 when he had a mild heart attack and it scared him bad enough to stop, he lived 83 and pancreatic cancer took him down fast. He was amazing man, he was still deer hunting with a portacath for chemo treatments in his chest. I figure if he could quit just about anybody should be able to. There's not an active smoker in my family, not a sibling, not even a cousin. I think we all saw too many of our elders die from various heart problems and cancers. I come from a really big family.