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Our friends (whom we travel with often) prefer the beach/pool thing. Doing nothing is not relaxing for me. Actually, drives me nuts. I end up working on the laptop, so it's not much of a vacation, other than the change in scenery.
Seems like a lot of us have that affliction.
We are retired and went to Germany, Switzerland and Austria last summer. I have been to 12 different countries but these three were really great. No hey Joes rifling your pockets or trying to sell you fake stuff. Very nice places to visit and the scenery through the Alpine pass was breathtaking.
Another thing that greatly influences what type vacation you like is where you have previously "been there, done that, got the T-shirt".
I hitch hiked from Vermont to Northern California in 1973, taking the southern route (I-10) out and came back across the middle, taking and about 4 months. Then the next year drove the northern route through Canada to Sault Ste. Marie and to Seattle, coming back across the middle. By the time I joined the Army in 1975 I'd "been there, done that". I'd set foot in about 40 of the States plus several provinces in Canada. After I joined the Army they paid me to travel and I "visited" the rest of the US and most of the countries in the Northern Hemisphere from Serbia west to Japan. Usually in stints of two to three weeks training soldiers. Some places like Germany, Korea, Hawaii I had spent months in, with weekends off. So by the time I retired I had two closets full of of been there, done that, got the T-shirt" T-shirts and little desire to see far-flung places again for a second time. SWMBO had much the same experience.
Many of our work associates thought the same. After traveling 2 or 3 weeks out of each month for a decade or four it's nice to be home. Plus we avoid TSA like the plague.
Now don't get me wrong, I loved the weeks in Berchtesgaden, GREAT beer. Probably a month of weekends on the beaches in Waikiki. A month or two in Alaska. But now I just like to spend time on my land in Vermont, Virginia, and Mississippi.
I imagine many of the well travelled military think the same.