This is what I was thinking at first, too. But if that were the case, unless the FEL relief is isolated from the rest of the system as soon as the pressure rose above 2550 it would open and limit pressure throughout the system, all the way back to the pump outlet.
I think the key to this is where the FEL relief is sensing the pressure. If the most you can get at the FEL ports is 2550, it's internal to that valve and disregards everything else. The main safety valve, set for 3200 psi, is what's limiting the rest of the system here.
OK, let's consider for a moment what is protected, and what isn't. The FEL is fine, it's limited to 2550. Assuming the 3 point is capable of containing 3200 psi, it's fine. The only problem, at least so far, is the pressure out of the rear remotes, which is also at 3200 psi.
Maybe we should be looking at the new rear remote valve, and whether or not it has an internal relief. If it does, and I suspect that IS the case, it's just not set correctly. That's why Paul's tractor, and junkyarddog's too, are both at 2300-2500 psi, either because they were adjusted correctly at the factory, or they may have a different remote directional valve.
As I understand it, kuboman bought the kit from a Kubota dealer, which consisted of hard lines, a set of quick disconnects, the adapter plate, AND a valve assembly with directional control lever. I think there should be a relief valve built into that valve body, to limit the pressure output at the remotes. I guess it's possible that there are a couple different options available when you order the remote kit, and one of them doesn't have an internal relief.
I don't really understand the logic behind this set up. Why would Kubota build a tractor without a main relief valve? They are assuming that any add-ons will have their own internal or external reliefs, because obviously in this case the FEL valve is not controlling the pressure downstream in the system. It must have something to do with where that relief valve is taking it's pilot(sensing) pressure from, as we're starting to see.
Sean