I'm a little late to this thread, but we live off-grid. I come at it from a little different perspective -- I'm definitely not a socialist or "greenie" (no offense to anyone). Just always thought it would be cool to do my own thing, not dependent on a big power co.
To bring utility power up to our homesite was maybe around 1500 feet, but the power co wanted $40,000 to install, and then a $200/month service charge because we would be the last on the line (BLM land beyond us). Over 20 years, that's $48k in service charges + $40k install + usage costs.
Our 3.4 KW of solar panels, 2 Outback inverters, L16 battery bank (700 amp-hour @ 48 volts), etc. cost about $40,000 without incentives. Out-of-pocket cost was about $20,000 in the end (I'm still claiming the 50% tax credits over 3 years). It was an no-brainer choice for us because it was the land we wanted and it was where we wanted to build the house. Costs have come down quite a bit in the past few years since our installation.
If you are thinking about solar panels to offset any of your usage, I'd consider becoming the most energy efficient you can be first. That's where the most bang for the buck is. You're pouring money down the drain (or quite rich) if you have a giant monthly bill and want to fix that w/ a solar array. Our new off-grid house is almost 4x more efficient than the house in town, electricity-wise. We use about 10+ kwh/day, and that's on the high side for an off-grid home. The clothes dryer, stove/oven, and on-demand water heater are propane. Heating is by a custom built masonry stove (similar principle to the already mentioned Tulikivi).
If you're interested in our off-grid saga and more data:
Off-grid
Marcus
Very similar to my off grid set up:
2 VFX3648, 8 Rolls 530s batts, MPPT 60 and 80, etc.