Back in the 90's, I got away from God. Not intentionally. My TBN-style pastor turned out to be really disappointing (a pattern), and I left my church, thinking I would find another one quickly. I didn't, and eventually, I was barely praying at all. This, not leaving the church, was what did me in. Leaving the church was helpful.
Later, I found myself in grad school. I was deep in ****** sin. They put me on drugs because of attention problems. The drugs drove me around the bend. Most miserable time of my life. When I prayed, I felt like I was inside a cistern made of brass, and the prayers were bouncing off the ceiling. It was like God had blocked my calls, and I suppose he had.
I burned out and quit grad school, and I went to law school because it was much easier and law paid well.
After law school, I started to get closer to God, but I didn't want to become a fanatic. I thought it would cut me off from humanity and ruin my social life; I didn't realize those things were benefits. I thought I would become a Baptist or something and give up on the fruit and gifts of the Holy Spirit.
I had a lot of problems after that, but it wasn't like the 90's. 
In around 2007, I decided to be a fanatic again. Started praying in tongues all the time. Repented instead of just treating church like a washing machine. Asked for deliverance and correction.
I got into two successive prosperity churches, and the pastors ended up treating me like John Dillinger because I told people tithing and giving prosperity offerings didn't work and were not required. I left one church, and the next one drove me out.
After that, God made me wealthy even though I didn't work, and now I have a wonderful wife, a great home, a county full of warm, loving red Christians, and a magnificent baby son who brings me joy over and over every day. I hear from God constantly, and he keeps correcting and improving me.
Becoming a fanatic made it all happen.
It turned out tithing and giving prosperity offerings cursed my finances. That was interesting. Not tithing was connected to my success.