I think I know now though. Consider above I described an open center valve where PB and tank were combined. It works because, being the last valve in a system, PB has nothing to do so PB and tank just flow together. Now, after the BH, there is the 3PH. The 3PH is also open center and fluid just flows through the middle if it is doing no work. Since it never does work with the backhoe attached, it is effectively just a pipe with blended tank and PB flow. Your new rear remotes will not have that scenario, so we need a tank line.
I get that. So, "living dangerously" I could send the valve T and PB to the same place (P) for the 3pt hitch AS LONG as I remember to never use the raise/lower on the 3pt at the same time as the tilt and/or top on the box blade, or whatever. But I guess that is not optimal if I got a 3 or more spool for some future toy. The way my memory has been getting lately, it might be better for forget that entirely
I'd not do that unless you want to invest in tubing bending and flaring tools. Not fun without the right tools. I really want JIC flaring tools, but its just too much money.
Post again your tank port picture on the tractor. We need to figure out how to get two lines teed in there. If I recall, it was a hard line with a banjo fitting. You can get banjo fittings on rubber hoses too. I'm thinking a short hose with a banjo on one end and a JIC on the other. A JIC tee. and then one rubber line aft and one back to the loader valve with whatever fitting is needed. I usually use a JIC on the hose and an adapter on the valve body if needed.
This is all I can come up with at this hour. It is night, cool, raining, so, no shots tonight.