Couple of things jumped out to me in your description of what you want. First thing is about your builder? Have to talked to other builders and have you looked at other projects that he has done? Every building has "their" way of doing things, so what some of what you are saying he will do is probably what he is comfortable with doing and not necessarily what is the ideal way of doing things.
There are 3 basic ways of building a shop or a shed or a barn, that is basically a rectangular shell.
Pole building has poles in the ground and trusses spanning the roof. This is the most cost effective way to build. If you are going to finish off the interior walls, which will require framing, and if you are going to pour concrete, then stick framing becomes more cost effective. If you want maximum span and height, iron buildings are best.
From what you have stated, I think you should consider stick framing on top of a concrete foundation. Install metal on the ceiling and then blow in insulation. R10 isn't worth the money, and fiberglass batts in the attic for insulation or horrible inefficient because of all the gaps between them. One foot of blown in AttiCat insulation will give you R30. I personally prefer 2 feet for R60. I also don't think 29 guage metal should be used on metal building. It's too thin and easily damaged. It's cheaper, but in the long run, it will be more likely to give you issues over 26 gauge. I've also heard a few things about US Steel that causes me to be hesitant to use them. From what I understand, it's sales person driven company that farms out suppliers after they get you to agree to buy from them, and you rarely know who that is until it arrives at your location. If you have any issues, then you have to deal with the supplier. I wouldn't put any faith in a warrantee from any company. Best case scenario is that they give you replacement material, but usually you have to jump through hoops for that, and if they agree to give you the replacement materials, it's then up to you to do the work yourself or hire it out. This is true with every warrantee for every home product that I've ever dealt with, from flooring, to faucets, and everything else.