Hey Bumperm,
Today, I installed braided hose guard on the new hoses. Installed a selector on the side of the valve console and wired back to tractor fuse block. I added a fuse holder with blown fuse indication and fed it from the "key lock" fuse so the power is off when the key is off. disconnect at back of tractor is currently "wire nuts"

. need to pick up power plug tomorrow. All wiring is 16/2 SO cord neoprene jacket with braid cover where i couldn't hide it in an existing braid cover.
1) I also moved my upper "tee" down to the top of the curl cylinder like you had (pulled the pin, blocked the cylinder out, backed out the JIC/NPT 90 and replaced with a JIC/NPT/JIC tee, and reassembled).
2) Originally, I installed a street tee and JIC 90 farther upstream before the boom/dipper pivot. i had three hoses going over the pivot instead of just the two.
3) I agree on the solenoid. i have a guard in the works. already had a close call not unlike what you described.
Noticed a little leak by on the solenoid when digging (curling) real hard. Thumb gradually works its way down from the stored position. (Hydraforce does state a leak rate so i can't *****)
I will post more photos when everything is all prettied up (and painted). I did some substantial mods to the cylinder, but even with the machining and welding, I test ran this in seven hours. (pre-purchased hoses from NAPA and fittings from DHH. Cylinder and solenoid from Ebay)
Thanks for your detailed build and design tips in your post. Makes it too easy.