Thanks so much for all the helpful advice!
I ended up purchasing the Titan attachments triangle one with a hitch. Primarily because there was an open box on ebay for $70 shipped. My plan is to purchase either the Tri-ball with a hook or just get a hook or d-ring receiver at harbor freight.
My tractor is only rated at 1438lbs on the pto so I really dont need anything super heavy duty. Other than the trailer I will probably only be dragging small trees. I also purchase the titan quick attach forks for the front loader. Ideally I would have like to have a 3 point hitch that would have allowed me to use the forks in the rear but I was unable to find a model like this other than a homemade version as shown below which is super cool and has a boom. I plan to make something similar in the future but I wanted to have something on hand when spring comes and we need to get the boat out.
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