Nice try, but swivels have nothing to do with the rod bending. They bend on a splitter because the rod is extended far out of the cylinder housing and more force is placed on the rod than it can handle. So, it bends. Kind of like pressing a 2"x4" piece of lumber against a wall. It doesn't matter what you do to the ends, it will bend in the middle.
The further the rod is extended, the easier it is for a catastrophe. The closer the piston gets to the gland, the easier it is for everything to bend. Same principal as an extension ladder, collapsed, it's very strong. Extend them all the way and they get shaky.
Cylinder manufacturers rarely have any input as to the engineering of the equipment their cylinders are manufactured for.
[[[As for no possibility of pressure higher than relief, you have got to be kidding me. When you have a gnarly piece of wood that builds pressure on the piston end approaching relief, then the wood pops, the piston goes flying forward, exerting all this force on the rod/gland end of the cylinder. I would bet that pressure spikes on the rod/gland end approach double the relief valve pressure.]]]