And if the guy who did the shooting gets out in 10 years (if he's lucky to get out alive after some of the black boys find out what he's in for), although he may be alive, do really think he'll have much of a life to go back to? Not even addressing the civil matter and declared bankruptcy the guy will go probably go through.
What it seems you fail to realize is that there is no getting a "best" per how this confrontation played out.
The guy with the gun got into ANOTHER argument, this was his second. The first guy got away because he probably walked away. My point is the guy with the gun opened his door to his future by being a loudmouth with a gun.
Carry a gun, keep your mouth shut, period. No talking, no looking funny or hand gestures at the other person, just walk away to ensure you don't have to use your gun. YOU have to show that in no way shape or form, you didn't start any ***** to begin with that made you use your gun in defense of your own life in your opinion.