Guys, thanks for the info....
I'd like to think I am a big enough man to admit my mistakes and also to learn from them.
In this case, I admit I would do things differently if given the chance.
1.) I would make sure the dealer understands what my expectations are before the purchase.
2.) I would make sure I took any time necessary to thoroughly inspect the machine with the dealer in a brightly lit area.
3.) I would make sure my dealer and I were in agreement on any issues that we found and if or how they would be handled.
4.) I would not leave with the machine until I was satisfied that everything was the way I wanted it, or that we had a written agreement on anything that might need to be cleaned, fixed, or replaced.
5.) If I did happen to find issues once I got home, I would not lump "minor" cosmetic issues in with "major" structural or quality issues.
Since we can't go back in time, all I can do is admit my mistakes and hopefully my dealer and Kubota can do the same, and they have already begun that process. I have been in contact with both and things are happening. I understand things move slower around the holidays and people are on vacation, etc. I suspect I will be hearing something next week or so. I'm a patient guy, I'm confident that this will work out.
In the meantime, my dealer has acquired a new wheel and tire for me to replace the badly scratched one. I will touch up the other wheel that is not scratched as bad. I'm very pleased that they have decided to do this. They recently got another set of wheels in on LTL carrier and saw how bad of shape they were in from the shipping. My mower deck has arrived (even though it was not due in until Mar) so I will be getting the mower deck and the new wheel tomorrow.
As far as the grease....I should not have mentioned it. yes, I do feel it was sloppy, and I used about a half roll of paper towels to clean the excess off and to actually be able to see the zerks, but I was also glad everything was lubricated properly. Why would I worry? because I often get home from work and jump on to clear snow or mow, and I do not want to ruin some clothes because I brushed up against a big glob of grease. I'm over it, no biggie, and wish I would not have posted that here

I can get as dirty as anybody, but occasionally I need to jump on for 30 minutes to mow or move some snow and don't want to put on some coveralls.
The welding, I will not back down from. I wish I would have taken the close up pictures and posted those first. I realize now that the original photos do not capture the extent of how bad they are and also why I was frustrated that not everyone could understand why I was unhappy with it. Sometimes pictures just do not show the real thing. I think the loader will be replaced, if not, the booms and bucket will be. I would assume it is easier to replace the whole thing, but I'll work with them on what works best for everyone. Unfortunately this one slipped out, and I do not believe it is consistent with products Kubota is putting out.
Also, for those wondering, I was told to go ahead and use the loader while I am waiting and that it would not effect this situation at all. I have been moving snow and ice and have not broke it yet.
I'm a Kubota fan. I just helped convince my dad to purchase a new
GR2110 lawn tractor, I see more new Kubotas in my future, and I will continue to promote them to others. I do feel they are a great machine and that is why I have purchased my second one. Depending on how you look at it, this loader either got to the "right guy" or the "wrong guy".
I have learned alot from everyone's feedback, and I can gaurantee that Kubota has received a ton of valuble data by reading what everyone feels on this topic. I work for a very large company with a great reputation, but we also occasionaly make mistakes. Hopefully we don't make the same ones twice and sometimes we need our customers to remind us what they expect in quality, performance, appearance, and price.
Mike