Well I went and looked at the sig p229, springfield xd both is .40 cal. I also looked at a bersa .380 which looks like a nice gun, and is cheaper, but I think for what I want the sig is the way to go. It is heavier but it feels better in my hand. The xd feels top heavy unloaded, and while I know I will be shooting it loaded at some point there won't be enough rounds to balance it out. I will probably stop at Gander Mountain once more and just see what they have used to see if I can save some money, but getting an $800+ gun for $550 seems to make sense, plus it will give me the versatility to get the .357 sig barrel down the road.