Redbug
Veteran Member
The job I hold and what I do, (Feds under NOAA), are OK by anyone's standards. But I think you reach a point in life later on where a job is just a job...no matter what you do. When you are younger, you have a different attitude and your views and life are narrower and not as broad as you get older. When you are young, you are hungry and have more energy to put towards a career and work. You have to be that way. Later, you don't have those needs and you can see the real forest...the trees are not in the way. Life is in stages. You do not identify yourself by what you do, rather by who you are inside.
The past 10 years at least, I think of my life as being a see-saw. Up and down, up and down. You have your work life and then your real life. Turn one on and turn the other off. Get off work and turn your real life on. And vice versa. Trying to do things and get things done in your real life while fitting in work in between. Life stops while at work. I hate that and I hate wasting time and turning the real life off. 100% of your time and life are yours to do with what you want after you retire. It's not about money anymore.
A lot about retiring has to do with saving, investing, and living below your means. And not going through divorces. For me, the drive is knowing that you can't keep living a roller coaster most of your life and expect to be happy.
Anyways...I do see the zip, zip, zip, now. And I feel like 40...so take that Gizmo!
The past 10 years at least, I think of my life as being a see-saw. Up and down, up and down. You have your work life and then your real life. Turn one on and turn the other off. Get off work and turn your real life on. And vice versa. Trying to do things and get things done in your real life while fitting in work in between. Life stops while at work. I hate that and I hate wasting time and turning the real life off. 100% of your time and life are yours to do with what you want after you retire. It's not about money anymore.
A lot about retiring has to do with saving, investing, and living below your means. And not going through divorces. For me, the drive is knowing that you can't keep living a roller coaster most of your life and expect to be happy.
Anyways...I do see the zip, zip, zip, now. And I feel like 40...so take that Gizmo!