You may want to pick up a new grinder wheel at your Tazwell visit. The new models have replaceable teeth. I have WAY more than 10 hours on my grinder and it is still sharp, throwing large chunks of stump.
You haven't reversed the rotation of yours? You still have it hurling debris at the operator? I can't say "it grinds as well either direction" ONLY because I never tried it in the stock configeration. However, it does a GREAT job in the "reverse" mode, throwing 99% away from you and your PT. Safety glasses are still required for that occasional chunk that somehow makes it all the way back and bounces off the operator.
I have ground down some stumps about the size of the one you are tackling (some pine, some oak). It's not quick tho, taking a couple of hours for one that big.
Phil