Thanks guys, reading this really means alot. Even though I had said goodbyes at least 6 times since last fall, and I had just called the vet before preparing her place, it still hit me hard when I went back to the truck and found her passed. I'm so glad I had stopped and petted and talked to her before getting the tractor.
So, if I may...
I think today, the other dogs are more aware of her absence. Two moreso than the others. Kalani joined us at just 6 weeks old, she'll be 5 yo next Monday, so Ruby was something of a Mom to her. Kalani was still a pup herself of maybe 7 months when Jack passed. Ruby was definitely affected, but young Kalani needed a playmate and forced her to live and enjoy. Without Kalani, we had no doubt, Ruby would have joined Jack in short order. Kalani is a talker, last night she just kept coming to my chair, vocally expressing herself. This morning even moreno, with almost with an edge that she wasn't getting the answer she wanted. Yep, this is the same dog that comes and tells me when the food or water bowl is empty, even if not for herself.
One of Kalani's pups, Pele turned 3 on 7/3, and has had a special relationship with Ruby since a pup, grooming and worrying over her, especially these last few months. As our habit, we fed the 3 older dogs breakfast, except there were but 3 this morning. Ruby had mastered the technique of eating hers and still getting something from the other 3 plates - with nary a complaint from the others. Even though they had been looking for her since last night, it was obvious She was missing at breakfast. We had to coax them to eat- even with real chicken in the dish. Kalani never did, Pele kinda nibbled, but Flash sensed the reality and not only ate his and Kalani's, but some of Pele's.
Boxers are like kids, each has their own personality. I suspect they all do, I just never noticed until having boxers.
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