Hold up a sec. I have a few thoughts.
First If "X" is right sry dont remember who said it. That his TC-45 can barely handle the larger Heavy round bales, but can handle the smaller size then I would ask is that with a Quick Change to A bale Spear, or is that a spear over the bucket. The reason I ask is Pilotshock said this FEL doesnt have a quick change. Putting the spear over the bucket will greatly decrease lift capacity, I would think. Further from point of pivot. I am jsut guessing here, I still move round bales with my forks.
I have a few comments to your quest, Pilotshock.
1) Becareful of going to sall or to large on your first tractor. I bought a TC-55da as my first becuase I needed the lift capacity, and some brute power as I was clearing part of m33 acres for my house. It is great becase it is a compact and will drive amongst trees nicely, makes good turns, drags the jump arena, etc, all very nicely. But it is big and not hydro and I didnt want my farm hand using it.
2) I am not saying a TC-55da is the machine for you. On the contrary I dont think it is. I also have a TC-30 wiith FEL and a rear remote. This is the farm hand tractor. Small, easy to drive, and zooms everywhere. couldnt handle a big bail, but with a small utility 3PH bed, it moves square bales everywhere. My dealer yesterday pointed at his 4wh drive Mule and said "you need one those next". My response was that is what my TC 30 is.
3) I would tend to agree somewhat with the crowd saying a larger AG. Tractor might not be a bad idea. My suggestion would be to find a used AQ with a fell. You can get a good price on a larger AG tractor that is used, with plenty and plenty of life left in it. Then I would consider buying a real small utility tractor that's hydro for putting around in the tight spots. A TC-30 new is around 10,500 US without a fell. It is the most cost effectice, cheap small unit that I am aware of. I am sure you could get a good deal on a used one.
This may be a wild hair brained thought. But if you go a little older, and switch to an AG and a TC-30 (bare bones model) you may get the larger size and power that your farm screams for, and some ease of use, for tight areas.
Oh and one thing I have noticed which is really common sense. Toys for the Big tractor TC-55da cost a lot more than my toys for the TC-30. For example Boxblade on TC-30 $300-400, the Boxblade on my 55DA just over a $1000. Rotary cutters are the even worse....