I haven't been on TBN for quite a while and I really don't know why. On Facebbok Eddie Walker posted how Jinman was TBNer of the month and I though, yeah I should go back there and catch up on things. So I click on the active threads and start reading and stumble upon this one. Oh my gosh what a hoot, I had the best time reading it. You guys are all sooooo funny. Women and men really are different and I can only speak for myself. When I was first married a lot of times I really didn't understand my husband, why he would pick this over that? But the longer we are married not only do I understand him but I bet I can predict with 99.9% accuracy which direction he will take on any given topic/situation. And I know he totally understands me in the same way, I guess after 35 years of marriage we better have figured this stuff out by now. Although we understand each other we still think differently and that's a fact. I read once that the definiation of a good marriage is giving in when you are right. I never came across any one sentence definition better than that. Course it has to be a two way street, he gives in sometimes and I give in sometimes.
Rob-D I understand your well thought out logical approach to marriage and I commend you for it. You and your wife seem well suited to each other but what works for you will not work for everybody. I guess we will go back to writing about tractors. I really need to update my thread on the mill project.