Well Everyone, thanks for your "welcomes" and advice! Today I bought my first tractor!! Under the "go big or go home" file I bought a Mahindra 7520 4x4 with quick attach bucket (~1200 hrs). I'm really pleased with it, very little wear and tear, no dents in the bucket, no leaks in the engine, brand new tires.
Now I'll be able to move pipe, giant tree stumps that my wife won't let me chain-saw up ("they make perfect jumps for our horses") and large round bales without fear of over exerting the machine. That was one of my biggest fears being a tractor newbie...over extending what the machine can do and tipping it on myself. Also, being 6'4" I like the fact that I "fit" in the seat. Should be delivered next weekend. Seller is polishing it up and putting a canopy on it before delivery.
I'll provide some updates when I've had the chance to use it for a bit.