Just my personal opinion as a Tx licensed water well driller and pump installer for 20 years...
My advice is to use the smallest well pump that will do the job and couple it with the largest well tank you can afford. Most people use a larger pump than necessary and that causes excessive cycling.
TheGoose
With your experience then I have a question or series of them.
Due to code I have to put a fire suppression system in the new house we are going to build.
Option A I can put a large pump set deeper and get the flow I need.
or
Option B I can put a smaller pump say 5-10 gpm set more shallow (dynamic level at 10 gpm is a little bit higher than at 50 gpm) and put in a 2000-3000 gal tank with another pump which is high gpm to supply the system.
Option A the well pump is more expensive with more copper in the hole (set deeper) but less complex as only one pump and no storage tanks.
Option B has a cheaper well pump but the extra tanks and extra high flow pump are not cheap.
Either way would have a pressure tank for the system.
Money aside which do you think is better in the case as I describe it?
Tradeoffs for certain but what is your opinion as a long time pump installer. I have had installers give me absolutely positive answers both ways.
They each think there is only one way, their way, each one being the opposite of the other.
By the way the well can support either option. Required flow is 50 gpm.