You have hit the nail squarely. The weight of carrying a firearm is not measured in ounces and pounds, it is measured in maturity and good judgment. When you strap on a sidearm you are taking on an enormous responsibility that requires you consider even the most routine of activities in a new way. The introduction of a firearm into a situation MUST be considered as a LAST resort, when all else has failed. If you consider a firearm in any other light, you are making a mistake that will eventually get you in trouble.I NEVER recommend that people do their own gunsmithing. I never tell people that I think they should carry a firearm. Not because I do not believe they could, or because I can't. In fact ability is not the issue. The issue is mindset;1) If I recommend you smith your weapon, and you shoot someone with it, I could become part of the legal tangle. Same thing if I suggest you carry. Welcome to 21st century America.2) Not everyone has the proper mindset to take on the responsibility of carrying a firearm. A lot of people can’t even drive a car without becoming enraged and acting on that impulse. Want proof? Watch Jay Leno’s “Jay walk” segment sometime.3) Most people simply do not have the situational awareness to carry a firearm in public safely. That is not good, but it is a fact.I am an advocate of RESPONSIBLE firearms ownership. Part of that responsibility is recognition, acceptance, and attention to the issues involved. One of those issues is maturity of the decision process. In a forum like this it is impossible to know who might read and act on the advice presented. If you don’t think about that and act accordingly you are asking for trouble.If you decide to smith your firearms that is your choice. If you decide to carry that weapon that is you choice, if you decide to use that weapon that is your choice. While I am a strong advocate of the right of every person to exercise the freedom to decide these things for themselves, I am not in a position to recommend that any particular person do any of these things. It’s your life and your decision. Just remember it could also be someone else’s life and your decision, and that weighs a lot more than three pounds.