Todd,
I have mixed emotions about all of this (although I don't have mixed convictions - we need to stand for our way of life). I understand why you are criticizing various viewpoints. However, I believe you should confront yourself and share with us the answer to the question - What do you think we SHOULD do. You've told us what you think we shouldn't do. By criticizing other recommended courses of action, we get a clear picture of what you would prefer we DIDN'T do. What you haven't said is what we SHOULD do. Even if one disagrees with other opinions expressed here with regard to actions we should take, one MUST respect them for laying out their position for all to read about (and criticize). I believe you owe it to the group to formulate a course of action that we could take that is consistent with your beliefs. Even pacifism is acceptable, if that is what you believe. I do a fair bit of business travel, and we usually follow a basic rule at dinner time. You can't shoot down the other guy's suggestion of what to have for dinner if you don't have an alternative suggestion of your own.
PaulT