Farmwithjunk
Super Member
I've got a close friend that's an alcohol councelor. His program is one of a select few that our county will accept under terms of DWI convictions. HE asked me to sit in as a guest a few months back. He wanted someone to give an objective assessment as a citizen/motorist that had never been charged with DWI. After the "event" was over, I'm relatively sure he wished we would have skipped that experiment.
My opinion; The system, including most alcohol abuse programs coddles the offender far too much. They are treated as a victim themselves in many cases. The first class I sat in on included several family members of convicted drunk drivers. They were there to recieve their "training" on dealing with alcoholism. They were told, "Don't "enable" the abuser by fussing and nagging them. Don't take their "drink" away from them. Don't tell them they've done something bad. Don't confront them while they're drinking." Hmmmm. My view is, if someone has the nerve to drink and drive impared on the same roads me and my family are using, I'd just as soon take a ball bat and deliver my message. They need to take responsibility for their actions, NOT be given a gold star and told they're good people. They ARE doing bad things. They need to know that.
The punishment should fit the crime.
Sorry any AA members. I've buried 2 good friends that were killed by drunk drivers. I have no compassion for irresponsible behavior.
The plan was for me to sit in on 4 classes. The experiment was over after the first half of class #1.
My opinion; The system, including most alcohol abuse programs coddles the offender far too much. They are treated as a victim themselves in many cases. The first class I sat in on included several family members of convicted drunk drivers. They were there to recieve their "training" on dealing with alcoholism. They were told, "Don't "enable" the abuser by fussing and nagging them. Don't take their "drink" away from them. Don't tell them they've done something bad. Don't confront them while they're drinking." Hmmmm. My view is, if someone has the nerve to drink and drive impared on the same roads me and my family are using, I'd just as soon take a ball bat and deliver my message. They need to take responsibility for their actions, NOT be given a gold star and told they're good people. They ARE doing bad things. They need to know that.
The punishment should fit the crime.
Sorry any AA members. I've buried 2 good friends that were killed by drunk drivers. I have no compassion for irresponsible behavior.
The plan was for me to sit in on 4 classes. The experiment was over after the first half of class #1.
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