I've a Honda EM7000 for back-up on my country garage/apt. It has a system whereby generator motor rpm is proportional to output demand, so fuel consumption is likewise regulated. Most with "country" homes believe they're self-sufficient, with septic and such, but when power goes, as it did with me after a hurricane that knocked out area power for over a week, it became very clear that "no power, no water", and such power had to be sufficient for the start-up demands of the well pump (which as previously noted on this thread can be twice that of normal operating power). So, when I came home to find my distressed wife with no power, no refrigeration, no lights, no HVAC and no water, I cranked up the 27 amp 220v output Honda, but BEFORE such shut off the HVAC and freezer circuits. The generator (which is in superb shape) was not happy for awhile, but as the water holding tank, house frig and such were replenished, I could flip on the freezer and a few other switches. It's a matter of knowing the max. current draw of the stuff critical to you, and if you don't have a generator capable of handling everything starting at once, then you have to cycle in circuits when appropriate.
I'm going for a 15000 watt Onan built-in and propane powered for my soon-to-be constructed home. Still, I'll have to choose what circuits to power (AC, well pump, elevator, freezer/frig/etc). To run everything requires..... a lot, and when I added up the "start-up" amp requirements of everything I hope to have in the home ....I'm still going to need to priortize where the power goes.