Tipping etiquette...what would you do?

   / Tipping etiquette...what would you do? #141  
First off, another server ran the food without the mayo, but the mayo can be brought out ***AHEAD OF TIME****. LOTS AND LOTS of servers have EARNED THEIR **OWN** TIP IN THIS LIFE WE HAVE BY BRINGING CONDIMENTS OUT AHEAD OF TIME AVOIDING THAT KIND OF SITUATION. It's called anticipating customer's needs.

Secondly, the OP didn't say in his original post if the 2nd time he was delivered food it was by another server or their server. If it was the original server that took the order, then he shouldn't have messed up again. If it was a different server, the mayo should have still been there.

Also, his wife seems a bit dumb. I mean a side of mayo *IS* ALWAYS NO MATTER WHAT THE SERVER'S FAULT they forgot it. THEY took the order, they KNOW about it. It doesn't take even 5 minutes to get a side of mayo even. If there is no new container of mayo to open, it should take around a minute or two at most. She seems to have zero common sense. Also, if you can *SEE* mayo on the sandwich WITHOUT touching the food, the person that ran the food was at fault ASSUMING the order was put in correctly to begin with. The server COULD have put the order in wrong to begin with. If the server put in the order correctly that took the order, then the other server that ran the food should have noticed the mayo since the OP said that's the first thing he saw. If you can *SEE* something WITHOUT touching food, HOW can you not fault either the original server that took the order and/or the server that ran the food? Either way, a *SERVICE* issue, NOT a kitchen issue. Both issues were not kitchen issues. If it's obvious to the eyes without touching food, then the server shouldn't have delivered it like that. You ask to see the ticket if you aren't given one if you are running another server's food.



WHY? The person at fault is the person at fault REGARDLESS of what kind of restaurant it is. I don't understand why you see ANY DIFFERENCE in one worker that is not working hard vs. another? That's just seems stupid to me.

I don't care if you are at Denny's or IHOP, you should get a server that is willing to WORK HARD for their tip REGARDLESS of how much the food is.



Not at IHOP, you get to refill your OWN coffee cup, so there's LESS service than most restaurants have for that.



NO, the manager cannot be there every second making sure the servers are doing what they are supposed to do, that's just impossible. Also, whatever happened to *SELF-RESPONSIBILITY* for your actions?

the dumb wife comment made me lose all respect for this post. I didn't read any further.

It's obvious that you are not a server.. or if you are, you are stuck thinking the way your restaurant works is how all the rest of them work.. and sadly.. that's not the case.

If there is no ticket, and it is not common practice for the food runner to have the ticket ( manager or owners perogative? ) then you cannot assume the runner can just magically produce a ticket.

Saying you decide what to do in life is fine for someone who does not have to work for a living. Most of us have an idea of what we want to do in an ideal situation.. however life imposes itself many times.

Again.. your 'dumb wife' comment was very uncalled for.
 
   / Tipping etiquette...what would you do? #142  
I am very Fotunate in never having made a mistake in my life!:cool2::dance1::rolleyes::rolleyes:
 
   / Tipping etiquette...what would you do? #144  
Just curious. Does it seem "a bit dumb" to misspell the brand name of your own tractor; e.g., "John Deer"?:rolleyes:

Steve
 
   / Tipping etiquette...what would you do? #145  
Just curious. Does it seem "a bit dumb" to misspell the brand name of your own tractor; e.g., "John Deer"?:rolleyes:

Steve
I wasn't going to go there but... now that you mention it.
 
   / Tipping etiquette...what would you do? #146  
Just curious. Does it seem "a bit dumb" to misspell the brand name of your own tractor; e.g., "John Deer"?:rolleyes:

Steve

I wasn't going to go there but... now that you mention it.

I'd noticed it too and was going to mention something when I was writing my post, but that darned ADD.... hey, LOOK! Squirrel!! :laughing:
 
   / Tipping etiquette...what would you do? #147  
I think JDgreen snuck back in wearing a wig...
 
   / Tipping etiquette...what would you do? #148  
My wife started out as a waitress in various restaurants and got fairly good tips as I recall. One hotel/supper club she served at when she was younger had a door from the kitchen to the dining area that was about 2 inches narrower than the big trays they used to carry the food and dishes. She came home quite a few times crying about losing a plate or some other glassware going through the door and being forced to pay for the broken glassware. A waitresses life can be brutal at times and the bosses don't seem to sympathetic to them.

Maybe if she showed more cleave she would have made out better:laughing:
 
   / Tipping etiquette...what would you do? #149  
All that capitalization is just a waste of good electrons on me, don't read a word of it. Annoying just to see it on the page. I am grateful to the contributors who have offered much wisdom and valuable life experiences.

You're right, it is annoying. Whenever I see a blob of ALL CAPS come across, I pretty much ignore it and move right on to the next post.
 

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