Any suggestions as to what works through my own wifi?
Avoid the Leviton brand they only work if you have an active internet connection. Zero tech support from the manufacturer.
Lutron may work but I havent verified it yet. You have to buy a home hub. Its unclear if it works without a live internet connection.
My experience so far is its next to impossible to determine from vendor sales brochures if their devices will work without an active internet connection. Its buy it, try it, then return it when you discover it wont work offline.