AW Direct got back to me. They claim to only deal with towing winches and this is a crane winch so they can't help -- same story as other places. Called Ramsey again and asked WTF, where do I buy one of these? I was advised to ask for a price on part # 123308 rather than the winch model as every Ramsey dealer has access to every part & model.
Dealer #1 quote of $6500 CDN
Dealer #2 quote of $6100 CDN and offered advice that as it is a specialty winch and not that common and any of the 8000s would be much cheaper. Called me back a bit later with $2960 CDN for an 8000#
Dealer #3 in Syracuse quoted $3770 USD plus freight which at current exchange is about $5400 CDN not including the freight.
Clearly at those numbers, A new hyd winch isn't going to happen. I can buy a whole wrecker body on the used market right now for $1500 or a ready-to-go PTO skidding winch starting at $3000 CDN. Oh well, the grapple was always my priority anyway. I'll figure way to mount a winch when I find one that is a little more reasonably priced.
Frame pieces are cut and I'll start welding in the next day or two and have just about got the drawings for the grapple patterns ready to send my buddy for printing.