Some random observations:
- Life is risky.
- Most everything has a risk associated with it.
- We all have different risk tolerances, both for ourselves and for others, including our kids.
- Most risks are not perfectly calculable.
- I get annoyed when I see a person buy a Volvo because of its supposed crash-worthiness, and then drive it 85 mph down the highway.
- It's not ALL about "safety first". If it were, we'd all be wearing helmets and firesuits in our cars. We don't. There's other elements at play besides safety.
- I once read somewhere on this forum that the most effective safety device that could be added to a car is a 10 inch spike on the steering wheel, pointed at your chest. You'd drive REALLY carefully with such a device.
- My father (both my parents, really) spent a lot of time teaching practical safety. Everything had a reason; it wasn't just an arbitrary rule. For instance, when he'd get out the circular saw, he'd pick up a piece if wood about the size of my finger, quickly buzz through it, and point out how easily that could have gone through my finger. When you're 6, that has a lasting effect.