We've had a foster baby since early in September and even though Wifey and I have our 70th birthdays in the rearview mirror, the baby is doing great, has been fun and we can handle it well. The baby is learning and recently started taking a few steps. The baby loves it here and we love having it* here. We are only caregivers until the baby finds a "forever home". We'll both cry that day.
There have been certain things that the agency required us to do. One of these was "Zoom" visits with a family in another state. They were able to dictate the times so the couple and their children would all be present. TWICE that mommy conducted the meeting while driving and with the kids unbuckled and running around the minvan getting snacks.
The husband couldn't attend the last (and hopefully final) Zoom meeting. There was third party on the Zoom connection, making it a 3-way Zoom. Someone from the third party had to repeat things because the multi-tasking mommy was busy texting her husband. and apparently wasn't paying attention to either the Zoom visit or her driving!
I'm normally not someone to get involved in the affairs of others, but since there's a possibility the baby we are caring for could spend time with that family, we let the agency know about the multi-tasking mommy. If I ever hear of her poor judgment resulting in a crash I'll make it a point to volunteer as a "character witness".
*I know a baby is a "he" or "she" and not an "it". As foster parents, we are required to share almost no information, send or post pictures, etc.