I have pretty much read this thread with interest. Lots of pros & cons.
One thing that I did not see mentioned about forks was the moment arm factor. When you use normal forks, the chance of the load being extended further out on the forks, creates a moment arm that could really be dangerous. The further out on the forks, the less you should be trying to lift. If you do try to use forks, keep the load a close to the tractor as possible, and keep it low to the ground.
Another option mentioned (Post #74 with a photo) was removing the bucket and using the loader boom to raise the load. The photo speaks for it self. While the 'actual load' is close to the ground, the loader boom thinks that the load is directly where the sling attaches to the bucket frame. I.E., it is really high in the air. The chance for both sway and top heavy/COG issues abound.
The stone boat is a really good idea, as pointed out, tractors work best at pulling things. I am not sure about the rest of the country, but here in VT, there are hundreds of potential stone boats everywhere, as the state mandated that heating oil tanks be inspected every 3 years, and those that fail testing must be replaced. There are hundreds of old heating oil tanks around, which with a bit of cutting, would make a very solid and sturdy stone boat with much better metal than ornamental car hood metal.
"truenorth" posted photos of using just that idea back in 2010