I think all you've managed here is to get everyone else as confused as you are. Some of us out here may be familiar with your particular tractor model, some not so much. You're the only one looking at it, everyone else is just guessing at what you actually have. It might help some if we were all on the same page terminology wise. Reading previous posts I see mention of valves going here and there, (which I assume are actually lines or hoses) a pump supplying a filter, four loader valves, etc. I, for one, can't make much sense of most of that.
I think you need to start at the pump. Yes, it's actually two pumps, we all know that now. One supplies the hydraulics you have problems with, the other supplies transmission and steering. Let's get beyond that. Follow the line from the main pump section and see where it goes. Usually the loader valve will be first in line for oil flow, but not always. Can you confirm if that's the case or not? The loader valve should have three lines connecting it to the tractor. One pump pressure, one power beyond (leading back into the tractor remotes and three point lift) and a third one for open sump return. That's what most of us expect so our comments reflect that. Maybe you have that maybe not. Are you familiar with the term power beyond, and how it applies in a system like this?