My wife and I had gone through this a couple years ago.Well, if you were looking at it as an investment, yeah, you could think of it as a mistake.
I prefer to think this way. For example: build a $200,000 home in the early 90s or a $500,000 home in the early 90s?
What were you able to accomplish with that money that you didn't spend on that $500K house over the last 32 years?
So don't wonder about coulda-woulda-shoulda, as you cannot change the past. All you can do is take lessons from it and move forward.
Buy 1 expensive house
Buy a second rural home.
Went went the second home route.
We are the “new” neighbors in our southern Illinois town.
Our 12 acres is one of the smallest near us.
I’d say population in our area has declined over the past 10yrs.
Wife brought home a pizza Saturday night……..it wasn’t hot when she got home!!