You need to realize there are two relief style valves on the 3 pt hitch.
The normal one which limits how much weight it will lift.
The second one, usually called a safety valve, is in the cylinder circuit when you are traveling with a heavy implement on the 3 pt.
The safety valve's purpose is to protect the 3 pt against the loads caused by bouncing implements.
The safety valve has to be removed and tested on a fuel injection machine as its release pressure is much higher than the tractor's hydraulic system can develop.
This schematic is from a Kubota but other brands are similar.
Dave
M7040