You really should look into calling an onsite dry mix truck. They can mix any slump you want, can carry roughly 8 CY (although if making 4000+ psi they probably don't carry the Portland for 8 CY). You pay about $150 per CY (compared to $110 for ready mix truck) but you only pay for what you need, and they can change the slump as you go. Works great, but may or may not be available in your area. My old project manager told me anything less than a yard quikcrete is cheapest, more then 1 but less than 6 dry mix truck, anything 6 or more ready mix.
As to strength, we regularly pour 18" trench curb (12" above ground, 6" in ground, 6" thick) as a micro retaining wall, but 3 ft tall screams for at least an 8" x 8" footer and 6" wall at a mininium. Personally I would probably do 12" wide at base, formed face with plywood and strongbacks, and taper from 12" at bottom to 4" at the very top, vertical face, and use earth formed back, pulling dirt down as you pour to create the taper. Tap the face board as you pour to minimize honey comb. Don't strip form for 8 hours.