I have a little update on my quest. After reviewing and shopping I am finding this.
Kioti- great tractor. not great for a backhoe, or ergos for me
Kubota- Expensive for what you get. A lot of preconceived issues with performance of hydraulics. So far this tractor
BX25 is sized about right for me (along with the Kioti)
Mahindra- I think I will avoid this tractor. ALL OF THEM look like **** on the lot and they are all brand new. Lots of surface rust, and fading plastic. - Not only that, but not really a deal so why bother?
John Deere- Fantastic tractor, but I think it is going to be too big for the place that I live in. Its not a whole lot bigger than the Kubota, but it is. I fear that extra couple of inches may haunt me. Still undecided. Have a great bid for one at 193000 out the the door including 7.7% tax.
Massey Ferguson. 2 hour drive away from me and they dont have one int stock.

quote from a dealer even farther away
"MFGC1720 w/ R-4 Industrial Tires and a 12" Bucket $18,500.00 and payment of $252.52 @3.49 for 84mo.
MFGC1710 w/ R-4 Industrial Tires and 12" Bucket $17,500.
Delivery from us to you $450.
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I would really like to see this tractor in person, but they are far far away if something happens.
LS Tractor- Called and talk to remote dealer. he was too busy to engage over the phone and price over phone indicted they more expensive then anything else. I think I am going to pass on an expensive no name tractor - Just me.