This is exactly what I was wondering. What happens if you don't disconnect anything, just run an additional line to the glow plugs activated through a momentary contact push button switch (as noted, you'll probably need to run it through an appropriately rated relay, since most switches are not rated for that sort of current). You might even be able to run the alternate power (or alternate ground depending on how it's wired) direct to the existing relay coil. MAYBE the ECU will not be ble to sense this, and things will operate as desired. However, if the ECU gets confused and derates, will it stop derating once you stop manually powering the glow plugs? If so, no big deal. You don't really need maximum power when first starting and warming up your tractor anyway.