OK, that makes sense. I don't have and SSQA stuff, and the neighbours I have all have much larger tractors so I can't see ever borrowing anything. The only things I can see myself using on the front is the loader bucket and a set of pallet forks.
I've narrowed down to a 1023e or a 1025r -- leaning more to the 1023e as I don't need tilt/cruise/PTO height lock.
I don't thin enough weight is ever given to just following one's instinct. It's like choosing a partner. Go with the one that "feels" right.
Not sure about whether you need tilt is that for your steering? I have that on two of our tractors but rarely use it ... although my wife does the few times she drives it.
And you don't need cruise control unless you have a HST transmission and are using the tractor for distance at one speed - like mowing, any kind of field or cultivation work, plowing/blowing snow, or going somewhere down the road more than a quarter mile. All other forms of transmission are automatically cruise control because you can set the travel speed with a hand throttle. But HST doesn't work that way. You have to balance the foot pedal downforce with the throttle constantly unless you have cruise control.
PTO height lock? Not sure what that is either, unless it keeps you from binding the PTO shaft if you lift the 3pt too far. Most tractors just use an adjustable thumbscrew stop on the 3pt lift height lever to do the same thing - and they all have that thumb screw. At least I've never seen a tractor without it. Just remember to set it, or else you can bend a PTO shaft or worse yet bind one against the top link mount.
The advantage to the SSQA is just the convenience in borrowing or renting oddball implements that you would never go out and buy. Like a front hoe, or front cultivator...You can even rent a rock crusher - though I never do myself. SSQA would also be an advantage when buying used FEL implements , because chances are good that whatever it is, SSQA rather than JD. If you aren't tempted to do those things & just stick with bucket & forks you will never miss the SSQA. It just that the JD FEL type quick attach does lock you into a lower number of higher priced implements.
Just understand the options and do what is comfortable. None of these is life-changing. And tractors are about having fun.
rScotty