Thank You

[Steve_Miller]

Keep your chin up, there's no reason to hang your head. We are who we are and by wondering if you should / shoulda changed your life to accommodate others then you will always be second guessing yourself. As you plant your feet on the floor each morning consider yourself fortunate to be able to do what you like to do each day as its comes. Life is always going to be full of ups and downs, enjoy the ups and learn from the downs. I went looking for your post the next day and I began to wonder whether I dreamt that post or not.

Steve

 

[Wayne County Hose]

Eddie,

I didn't see the original thread. My God, I am so sorry for you. I literally want to sit here and cry. Having read your posts for quite a while now, I can tell that you are a good man that had something really crappy happen to him. I don't know what to tell you. Whenever you had problems before, it seems like writing them down did you some good. I can see why you would want to post things. maybe if you just typed out your thoughts and didn't post them. maybe type it into your email program and save it as a draft.

Good luck Eddie, we will say a prayer for you and your family. If you ever feel the need to get away for a little while, you are more than welcome here for as long as you like. The only advice I can give you is matter what, take the high road. Nobody ever regretted doing the right thing.

Andy

 

[two_bit_score]

I'm sorry to hear about what happend Eddie. I know you'll make it through this and I hope it's quickly. I'm sure you probably have more friends than you think you do.

 

[jayste]

Eddie, I'm somewhat at a loss for words (that's a little strange for me)! I'll just PM you. Just remember we're behind you. And last but not least have a clear head if you're using a circular saw or some other tool that might harm when your mind is preoccupied.

 

[IH3444]

Hello Eddie, I was one whom got to read the original post. To say I was shocked would be an understatment. I declined to post then. I then saw later in the evening it was gone. I awoke this morning, feeling a bit like the day after 9/11. Asking myself was this actually true, or was it a passing dream I had. Then I read this, and I knew that it was true, and not something I had thought in fit full slumber. I am so very sorry, but it is well and good to find out. You have a great family here also. We're here for you, always.

 

[CinderSchnauzer]

Hi Eddie

Although I only know of you through your posts, I can tell you are a good man -- one who dos not deserve this in any way. Believe me no matter how bad it seems at this moment - the worst is past. Put her behind you and move on as best you can. As others have said perhaps some counseling might help ease the pain. Hang out at your church or lean on your friends - whatever works.

I've seen this happen to a couple of dear friends. Don't for a moment start to blame yourself. Some women just have to "find themselves" no matter how well they are treated. One of our neighbors treated his wife like a Queen, causing a lot of problems for the rest of us husbands who were less attentive and whose wives brought it to our attention. In the meantime, she was boffing the kids gym teacher. - go figure.

 

[charlz]

Wow.

 

[Ridgewalker]

Just keep thinking, "This too shall pass"

God Bless you Eddie...

 

[RichZ]

Eddie, you've been a major positive force on TBN, giving many people, including me, lots of good advice. I missed the original thread, so I'm just reading this now. I'm sorry this happened, but life will go on, it always does. Hang in there, you've got lots of friends here at TBN, me among them.

 

[PILOON]

I too read the origional (remouved) post and certainly side with you!

Having read many of your posts on renovations and construction along with your gratious and professional advice to others that show your generous and professional nature make me shudder at the treatment you have just been dealt.

I too earned my living in construction and renovation hence I can attest to your professionalism and intergety, from your postings.

All this to say she did not deserve you, as you are too nice a guy.

Shame is she's a gold digger and used you as a stepping stone and will probably do the same to the next guy.

Keep you chin up!