JFoy
Silver Member
Growing up when I did (boomer) if a kid showed any disrespect toward an adult (even a stranger) and their parents heard about it...it was bad news for the kid!...these days it just the opposite...if an adult says something to a kid he sees acting up etc...it's more likely to end up having a negative impact on the adult citizen than it is the kid that was up to no good...(and the root of this is with the parents)...
I had a game and hobby shop one time. Mom comes in with young son to buy Pokemon cards. Mom says he can have one pack and he starts to argue with her that he *wants* three. Mom tries to handle her snotty little kid in front me as diplomatically as she can until I finally had enough of it. I finally looked at her and casually stated, "You are welcome to take him to our backroom and straighten him out if you'd like." The kid suddenly became very quiet . Ultimately, my wife scolded me for saying that.
Following that time and keeping my wife's scolding in mind, when a different kid acted the same way in front of his mom, I looked at the kid and stated, "I am not going to sell you anything if this is how you show respect to your parents." Kid had a horrified look on his face and mom smiled.
Ironically, we had several mothers tell us they appreciated how we had strict policies on manners and behavior in our store.