Most all the previous suggestions are good and valid. I used to have the same issues until I bought some replacement couplers from Summit Hydraulics (
Hydraulic Quick Connect Couplers and Multiplier Valves at Factory Direct Prices
summit-hydraulics.com
). Their 10,000 PSI HIGH PRESSURE QUICK COUPLERS are precision-made, relatively inexpensive, require zero tools, and are easy to connect and disconnect using only these 80-year-plus hands.
They use a fine-pitch thread to lever open the check valves inside the couplers.
Get them and you will be happy!