Well this year has been a hot dry one and we have been having to water pasture just to have grass. The watering has dropped the water pressure in the house by a noticeable amount
Do you have a filter on the line? I notice my flow drops off a lot once the filter is full of sand/grit. Replace the filter cartridge and I'm right back to happy with it. And of course they clog up faster when I'm using more, or the level in the well is lower resulting in more grit in the water.
Whenever we have the well serviced, pulling the pump takes an hour or less, they use a roller head in place of the well cap and pull it by hand, no fancy winches or hoists or anything. It's fussing with the connections for plumbing and electric that seem to be the most time consuming part of it.
After watching them pull their hair, even knowing everything they had to do, I was just as glad I hired the guys to do it. It would have taken me about three days to get everything hooked up, between multiple trips to the store for stuff that I forgot/wrong size, stops to research "does this look right"? etc. that only takes them an afternoon.
Between the hard water and the grit, we're hard on pumps. I second the vote for getting something a bit better than the box store stuff.