OK, if you and your gal are fine with spending more money, DEFINATELY get the bigger Kubota's (or whatever bigger machine). You started out sounding like I did when I got my
BX23 ... "I need to do it all (need hoe) and am not interested in going higher in price than ~16K for the BX or equivelent". If you'[ve got the money, cool. I had the money but but spent what I would have spent on a bigger tractor on other stuff, ie, dump trailer, more attachments (new and used), used commercial (self contained)
chipper.
Each day brings new criteria ... I've oftened thought of a larger tractor, but the more work I do, the more I think about
another (old, used, cheap, not-an-everyday-driver) tractor. The BX is great for me but to have another one for those times you need 2 buckets or whatever ... that's where I'm leaning now.
Cheers!